I’m Not Dead, 2006: Conway room, Max Martin and Dr. Luke, a grief hook
Who Knew is track two’s radio face on P!nk’s fourth studio album, I’m Not Dead, released in April 2006 on LaFace. Alecia Moore wrote the song with Max Martin and Lukasz “Dr. Luke” Gottwald; the pair also produced it at Conway Recording Studios in Hollywood. LaFace serviced it to radio on 8 May 2006 as the album’s second single after Stupid Girls. The album cut runs about 3:28: a mid-tempo pop arrangement, acoustic guitar under the verses, and a chorus built for arenas.
The lyric addresses a friend who is gone. Moore has described the song as grief for someone she lost to addiction and time, not a generic breakup. The opening lines (“You took my hand / You showed me how”) set a promise that the chorus then undercuts with “Who knew”. Martin and Gottwald keep the drums clean and the vocal dry enough that the words stay readable. There is no rap verse, no guest feature: just Moore’s voice and a pop structure that leaves the emotional weight on the hook.
The video, directed by the team Dragon (Samuel Bayer, Robert Hales, Brian Lazzaro), was shot in Los Angeles in mid-April 2006. It intercuts fairground scenes with a young couple pulled apart by drugs while P!nk performs on the grounds. First-wave US chart action was modest; after U + Ur Hand broke bigger, LaFace re-promoted Who Knew in 2007 and it peaked at number 9 on the Billboard Hot 100. In the UK it reached number 5. Adult pop radio held it longer than the first single cycle suggested.
If someone said three years from now / You’d be long gone / I’d stand up and punch them out / ’Cause they’re all wrong.
(Lyric, Who Knew, I’m Not Dead, LaFace, 2006)

On the I’m Not Dead Tour and later arena runs, the song stayed in the set as a mid-show pause: less circus wire, more vocal. The studio version remains the reference: Conway, Martin/Luke, and a pop single that took a second US campaign to match what European radio had already heard.
A grief song dressed as a hit. That is the brief of Who Knew.
Louise | 11 October 2026
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Not my usual lane but Who Knew got me. Fair enough.
Yuki | 11 October 2026
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I show Who Knew to friends who say they hate that era. Works every time. I told my coworker and they shrugged. Their loss.
Ivan | 12 October 2026
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Anyone else think the live versions of Who Knew are better? Studio still wins for me though. Needed that.
Théo | 12 October 2026
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my dad played P!nk in the car. Who Knew is basically my childhood commute.
François | 14 October 2026
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Still puts Who Knew on whenever I need a reset. Never gets old.
Tom Riff | 15 October 2026
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Anyone else think the live versions of Who Knew are better? Studio still wins for me though.
Maya | 15 October 2026
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not my usual lane but Who Knew got me. Fair enough. I told my coworker and they shrugged. Their loss.
Anne | 16 October 2026
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People sleep on how weird Who Knew actually is. This article gets it. Sharing this in the group chat. Expect chaos. Ok bye.